They encourage you to live your life to the fullest, even though they are incarcerated
They consider your thoughts and feelings first
They contribute where they can to the relationship
They truly want to make an effort and stay out of trouble
They do not rush you on commitment
They keep you in the loop of what is going on in their case, their family issues, their lives in general.
They say I love you too quickly
They ask or hint for you to send money on a regular basis
Have they taken down their ad for penpals? Do they have an excuse for why not?
Do they acknowledge you publicly?
Are you in contact with their family or friends?
Is this person someone that would want to date you if they were not incarcerated? Do they fit your type? We all dream for the young buff man but is this young buff man really someone who would pursue you?